dear sad:
first, let's establish that i agree with your sister: you are a horrible person.
obviously, you can do whatever you want & associate with - or exclude - whomever you want, but you dont get to do this & also blame the person you are excludeing for not "fitting in".
the only way your sister would ever fit in would be for you to make room for her. you are unwilling to do that, & that is your choice.
but her being upset is completely justified, & you'll just have to live with that. perhaps this is something you could ponder from your church pew, becos despite your regular attendance, you dont seem to have learned much.
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